The Best Engagement Flowers For Marriage Proposals
We’ve helped plan proposals in hotel rooms, on Malibu cliffs, even in the middle of a vineyard at sunset. No matter the setting, the flowers always set the tone. When someone asks us what blooms work best for popping the question, these are the ones we come back to every time:
- Peonies - There’s a softness to peonies that makes everything feel like a fairytale. We love them for proposals because they’re all about romance and luxury.
- Garden Roses - Roses will forever be linked to romance and passion. Garden roses are roses in their perfect form. They’re full, fragrant, and textured to touch.
- Ranunculus - We’ve used ranunculus in proposals where the couple just couldn’t stop smiling. They symbolize radiant charm, which says so much with so little.
- Orchids - Orchids feel modern and elegant, perfect for a sleek rooftop proposal or a surprise moment during dinner. They communicate respect and admiration to the person receiving them.
- Tulips - Tulips are many people's favorite for quieter, more intimate proposals. They don't have the passion of roses but they make up for it by expressing assurance and confidence.
If you're unsure which flowers to pick, reach out to The Hidden Garden and we’ll help you build a bouquet that says everything you’re feeling
Flower Colors To Include And Avoid In Your Engagement Bouquet
Your color choice sets the entire mood which is why it needs careful consideration for big moments like an engagement.Â
Here’s the colors we suggest including and avoiding in your engagement flowers based on their symbolic meaning.
Colors to include:
- Blush pink – Soft, romantic, and universally flattering. Pink symbolizes grace and admiration.
- Ivory – Ivory communicates purity and new beginnings, with an agreement to long-term commitment.
- Bright red – It's the symbol of red hot burning passion. Include this color in your engagement flowers to let your love and excitement shine through.
Colors to avoid:
- Lavender – Elegant but too confusing. It doesn't pack the romanticism you need in a proposal bouquet.
- Deep purple – This one leans too heavy into sad times. It’s often tied to mourning or mystery, which is not the right message for a proposal.
If you're stuck between options, we always suggest focusing on how the flowers make you feel. Think less about matching a color scheme and more about what kind of energy you want to bring into your engagement proposal.
Can I Order A Custom Flower Arrangement?Â
We’d love nothing more than to help you design an engagement flower arrangement that feels personal to your story. Whether you have a clear vision or just a few colors in mind, our team knows how to pull the right flowers together to make it feel like you. We’ve done this for so many couples, and it never stops being special. If you're ready to start planning, reach out to our team here and we’ll take it from there.
Our Tips And Ideas For Your Engagement Proposal Flowers
We’ve seen how flowers can completely transform a proposal setting. One tip we always give is to think beyond the engagement bouquet. Imagine walking down a path lit with candles, white petals scattered under your feet, and soft engagement arrangements on either side that feel like they grew there naturally. Using flowers to frame your decor sets a vibe that's hard to say no too.
Another tip. Don't hide the engagement flower bouquet from your partner when making the proposal. It's not a magic trick. Proudly holding the bouquet and looking right at them shows confidence. And makes the moment feel that much more vulnerable and human.
One idea couples don’t always think about is scent. Certain flowers carry strong, memorable fragrances that can stay with you long after the moment is over. Gardenias, sweet peas, even a few stems of tuberose can leave a lasting impression. We’ve had people say they caught a whiff of a certain bloom years later and were instantly brought back to their engagement proposal. Bare this in mind before getting down on one knee.